Teen relationships from a male perspective are greatly influenced by the music we listen to.  With rappers saying things like, “Bitches ain’t shit but hoes and tricks”; and Too Short rapping that, “I’ll be a playa for life; so where’s my wife, probably at the rehab stuck on the pipe.”  Now every man wants to be a playa, including me.  It didn’t use to be that way though.

Every girl I’ve ever tried to get serious with screwed me over in the end.  Take Denise.  We were together for 2 ½ years.  Everything was good between us.  I really liked her and would have done anything for her.  Out of nowhere, her ex started calling again.  She forgot about me and hooked back up with him.  I know what you’re thinking – yeah, it was silly of me to fall in love with a b*tch.  But don’t worry; it will never happen again. 

I’m not trying to waste anymore of my time.  Plus, I think it’s better to have a variety of girls.  That way when you get sick of one, you just call another.  I mean, in my case, I really like blonde girls with big booties.  Then again, Mexican girls turn me on, too.  So, why not have both?  I mean that’s about all you hear on the radio these days.  And the more you hear it, the more you think about it.  The more you think about it, the more you want to do it.  So, why not?  Just do it. 

If the music lyrics make guys want to be a “playa”, does that mean they don’t want to be in a committed relationship?  Well, in my case, yes, meaning I don’t want to be in a committed relationship.  But there are some guys still out there would be.